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    Most men believe that flirtation is all about how much *trash* they can talk in a conversation. Often, if a woman responds to this kind of lustful chat, a man takes it as a sign to keep his eyes on the prize and forget about taking it slow.

    Provocative, erotic talk can be a powerful aphrodisiac and does indeed have its place, but it is not always the way to go.

    While many women respond to quick wit, humor and light, friendly boasting as safe flirting, it is often the nonverbal gestures that win them over.

    SMELL

    The way you smell can either make or break your good beginning with a woman. First, your natural scent will determine how well she involuntarily responds to you. It is true, some people are just chemically drawn to one another. Pheromones, chemicals the body gives off in the presence of other bodies, controls sexual and emotional behavior. Some of the way she responds to you is her body's choosing.

    Cologne is the next level. Don't ever use too much. Applying it lightly at the pulse points on the wrists, neck or behind the ears is enough. Subtlety is key, especially if she has an allergy. You don't want to make her sneeze the whole time she's with you.

    MANNERS

    She may not wait for you to open the door for her or comment on the fact that you help her take her coat off or pull out her chair for her, but she notices. Good manners go a long way with women. They are attracted to confident men who are courteous enough to ask them if they agree with the plan for the evening. No woman wants to be around a man who always waits for her in order to make plans for the evening.

    By the same token, women are put off by the man who takes so much control that she is always just along for the ride. It says that you put yourself first without any consideration for her desires. Remember the best plan of action is to have a plan, but ask for her consent. She'll remember that you had enough respect to check in with her.

    HANDS

    When you talk to her over dinner, what are you doing with your hands? Are they always under the table in your lap? Are you gently holding or massaging her hands while she talks? If you are hiding them, is it because you are ashamed of how they look?

    Hands are extremely important for women. It goes far beyond where you place your hands, too. It all starts with how well you take care of your hands.

    You want to make sure your hands are strong and attractive. A light manicure with clean nails, trimmed cuticles and no snags scores you many brownie points. A man who takes care of his hands pays attention to details. No woman expects your hands to be "girly-man" buffed and shiny, for sure, but they should at least look as if you have good hygiene.

    Hands are important message centers. They tell a woman how you feel about her. You need to be in a prime position to have hands that are gentle, yet firm when you hug her good-night, or reach for her hand in a movie or gently touch her face.

    This goes double for clean teeth and a good smile.

    EYE CONTACT

    You will scare a woman away if you can't make eye contact. She will likely believe you either are not self-confident or you have something to hide. Either way, a lack of eye contact spells doom.

    If you can look deep into her eyes, though, it allows you to send nonverbal messages to her. She sees you as attentive, sincere and a man who has the courage of his own feelings. When you can maintain eye contact, you establish yourself as an honest man. It is true, some men are able to have unflinching eye contact and still lie through their teeth. But a willingness to look directly at her shows a willingness to be vulnerable - to let her actually *see* you and not have to guess where you stand.

    COMMAND OF THE ROOM

    Women love confidence so much they can easily get drunk on it. There is nothing like a man who is self-assured enough to come into a room and command the envy of every other man and the attraction of all the women.

    Half of flirtation, in fact, is about confidence. The other half is about how you present that confidence.

    Are you well-groomed? Do you have an upright walk and posture that say you *should* be respected? Do you come into the room with such *presence* that no one can ignore you? Are you respectful, but direct? Do you articulate your opinions in a way that makes you seem knowledgeable and savvy?

    But careful, don't come off too arrogant. She won't deal with you if you are too cocksure or if you register at the other extreme: Overly sensitive and too needy. A woman is attracted to you and willing to flirt if you have presented your best, most grounded self to her.

    Remember that flirting is always supposed to be fun and reckless. No one gets hurt and everyone has reason keep smiling. Don't make it so serious that you start planning the house and two children while you're flirting with her. Keep the conversation playful and amorous.

    And don't assume that what works on one woman works on all of them. Each woman is an individual challenge. Her positive responses will tell you what is working.

    Take it one wink at a time and savor the evolution of your time with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sacristo View Post
    Most men believe that flirtation is all about how much *trash* they can talk in a conversation. Often, if a woman responds to this kind of lustful chat, a man takes it as a sign to keep his eyes on the prize and forget about taking it slow.
    Provocative, erotic talk can be a powerful aphrodisiac and does indeed have its place, but it is not always the way to go.

    While many women respond to quick wit, humor and light, friendly boasting as safe flirting, it is often the nonverbal gestures that win them over.
    So true....it sometimes gets annoying when they overstep their boundaries and forget that, they just met the girl and should know when to pull the plugs on the silly jokes. It comes to a point, you become a bore and the girl is ready to find the first loophole available to get away from you.

    SMELL

    The way you smell can either make or break your good beginning with a woman. First, your natural scent will determine how well she involuntarily responds to you. It is true, some people are just chemically drawn to one another. Pheromones, chemicals the body gives off in the presence of other bodies, controls sexual and emotional behavior. Some of the way she responds to you is her body's choosing.

    Cologne is the next level. Don't ever use too much. Applying it lightly at the pulse points on the wrists, neck or behind the ears is enough. Subtlety is key, especially if she has an allergy. You don't want to make her sneeze the whole time she's with you.
    True talk, the smell from some guys just makes you wanna be near them and get engulfed in it. You cant enough of it and wouldn't mind returning his flirtatious gestures. Its a plus for a guy who is particular about how he smells.

    MANNERS

    She may not wait for you to open the door for her or comment on the fact that you help her take her coat off or pull out her chair for her, but she notices. Good manners go a long way with women. They are attracted to confident men who are courteous enough to ask them if they agree with the plan for the evening. No woman wants to be around a man who always waits for her in order to make plans for the evening.

    By the same token, women are put off by the man who takes so much control that she is always just along for the ride. It says that you put yourself first without any consideration for her desires. Remember the best plan of action is to have a plan, but ask for her consent. She'll remember that you had enough respect to check in with her.
    Lets see, first impressions they say count a lot but dont rush to start something you dont intend to see through to the end. It feels to have a man wait on you and seek your opinion about issues even if he doesn't intend to use them (using them is a plus though). Courtesy should be the key word....we dont like guys who come off as snobbish and so full of themselves.....MR High and Mighty.....Knowing all....

    HANDS

    When you talk to her over dinner, what are you doing with your hands? Are they always under the table in your lap? Are you gently holding or massaging her hands while she talks? If you are hiding them, is it because you are ashamed of how they look?

    Hands are extremely important for women. It goes far beyond where you place your hands, too. It all starts with how well you take care of your hands.

    You want to make sure your hands are strong and attractive. A light manicure with clean nails, trimmed cuticles and no snags scores you many brownie points. A man who takes care of his hands pays attention to details. No woman expects your hands to be "girly-man" buffed and shiny, for sure, but they should at least look as if you have good hygiene.

    Hands are important message centers. They tell a woman how you feel about her. You need to be in a prime position to have hands that are gentle, yet firm when you hug her good-night, or reach for her hand in a movie or gently touch her face.

    This goes double for clean teeth and a good smile.
    Hygiene can never be under-rated....I definitely wont wanna get close to a guy who doesn't take care of himself......any foul smell from wherever is a complete turn off.....Most men naturally have strong coarser hands than women but at least keep them clean and healthy. You dont have to visit the manicurist to do that....getting yourself a nail clipper to trim your fingernails and in addition with a good hand cream to moisturize your palms, you are good to go. It doesn't have to be the most expensive brand on the market but a good moisturizer to soften your hands....dont want ma hands bruised and sore after spending time with you.

    EYE CONTACT

    You will scare a woman away if you can't make eye contact. She will likely believe you either are not self-confident or you have something to hide. Either way, a lack of eye contact spells doom.

    If you can look deep into her eyes, though, it allows you to send nonverbal messages to her. She sees you as attentive, sincere and a man who has the courage of his own feelings. When you can maintain eye contact, you establish yourself as an honest man. It is true, some men are able to have unflinching eye contact and still lie through their teeth. But a willingness to look directly at her shows a willingness to be vulnerable - to let her actually *see* you and not have to guess where you stand.
    Look into my eyes and make me feel like I'm all you are thinking about and I'm the center of your thoughts.....you got me right there and I am hooked.

    COMMAND OF THE ROOM

    Women love confidence so much they can easily get drunk on it. There is nothing like a man who is self-assured enough to come into a room and command the envy of every other man and the attraction of all the women.

    Half of flirtation, in fact, is about confidence. The other half is about how you present that confidence.

    Are you well-groomed? Do you have an upright walk and posture that say you *should* be respected? Do you come into the room with such *presence* that no one can ignore you? Are you respectful, but direct? Do you articulate your opinions in a way that makes you seem knowledgeable and savvy?

    But careful, don't come off too arrogant. She won't deal with you if you are too cocksure or if you register at the other extreme: Overly sensitive and too needy. A woman is attracted to you and willing to flirt if you have presented your best, most grounded self to her.

    Remember that flirting is always supposed to be fun and reckless. No one gets hurt and everyone has reason keep smiling. Don't make it so serious that you start planning the house and two children while you're flirting with her. Keep the conversation playful and amorous.

    And don't assume that what works on one woman works on all of them. Each woman is an individual challenge. Her positive responses will tell you what is working.

    Take it one wink at a time and savor the evolution of your time with her.
    Just remember that we all playing to win here and so if you intend to win, you better play your cards right. We women have our ways too you know.....some women are natural flirts and same with some men too but I believe we ladies have the upper hand here....no offense guys dont take it personal....lol

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    Flirting 101- If she reeks of a strong scented perfume or giggles excessively cut the flirting and head straigt to the bedroom and don't forget to leave the money on t he pillow..LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by MegaMeister View Post
    Flirting 101- If she reeks of a strong scented perfume or giggles excessively cut the flirting and head straigt to the bedroom and don't forget to leave the money on t he pillow..LOL
    hahhahahahahhahaha................OMG Mega may I ask why? Anything wrong with giggles and laughter.......The perfumes I do get though....lol
    Last edited by CuTiEbABy; 9th September 2010 at 09:22 PM.

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    flirtwithlarry
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    wow,nice content,how to flirt with women is trully an art.

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    davianmcllm
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    I m trying it having nothing but ultimate fun while doing it.

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