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    The Christian Single Woman:

    The goal of most Christian single women is to be married. However, that does not mean you should wait until youíre engaged to start preparing to be a wife.

    God has someone just for you and Heís preparing you to be a part of your husbandís destiny. With that being the case, ladies we need to get ready! We will explore 7 steps of preparation.

    Step 1: Pray for your husband

    Many Christian single women pray to be married and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But this first P is not about praying to be married, but rather praying for YOUR husband.

    What better way to find true love in a husband than by lifting him up in prayer on a consistent basis. It is a priceless gift that helps him experience Godís blessings and grace. A powerful truth, every woman needs to know.

    Key areas of prayer may include, his spiritual walk, his emotions, his role as a father, leader and decision-maker, his security in work and finances, his health and physical protection, and his faith and future.


    every step for each day so come back tomorrow for step two.
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    The Christian Single Woman:

    Step 2: Prepare

    Your family & friends are your training ground for marriage. You must train yourself to model Christ now to those most familiar and close to so you will be great at it when you get married.

    Think of it this way: We can’t treat our family & friends poorly and then assume once we say ‘I do’ we will all of a sudden know how to treat our spouse.

    Family is like our practice field. We take into our future marriage what we learn in our life with them here and now. If we learn to snub or disown those closest to us now, we’re setting patterns for broken trust and emotional heartache in the future.

    If we train ourselves now to be verbally abusive to our family members, we will be conditioning ourselves to bite rather than bless in the future.

    If after reading this you need to call home and apologize to some folks, now is the time (LOL). Your family & friends are your training ground. Learn how to treat them in preparation for your future marriage.



    step 3 tomorrow. thanks
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    Why is this directed to christian women only ?
    Beware lest you lose the substance by grasping at the shadow. ~Aesop

    Ignorance can be educated,drunkenness sobered,craziness medicated but there is no cure for STUPIDITY


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    The Christian Single Woman:

    Step 3: Practice

    Yes, it’s true, during this time of singleness there are some freedoms that married women no longer have. However, that is not to say we should be footloose and fancy free. In fact, the opposite is true. We can and should be practicing submission. Yes, the ‘S’ word.

    Submission has gotten a bad rep over the years (often because I Peter chapter 3 is misunderstood), but every child of God should be submitted to Him. Submission is all about yielding in love.

    God has designated that the man is the head and as such the woman is to be submitted unto him. Single women need to understand that submission is not so much about submitting to your husband, but rather about submitting to God’s design for marriage.

    There is much more pressure on the man since he is held responsible, which is all the more reason why you should be praying for him. Remember the story of Adam and Eve. Even though Eve is the one that actually took a bite out of the fruit, God called out to Adam for an account and response (Genesis 3:9).

    God’s Word tells us our role in marriage and you can choose to obey or not. However, it would be worthwhile to practice during this time. God is your husband for now. Seek His guidance and ask His permission before doing or committing to various activities.

    TIP
    Jesus Christ is our ultimate example of submission, He submitted to His Father’s will for us. (Matthew 26:39).

    Practice submission now with God, so you can discover the joy of God’s plan and learn to view it as a positive.


    STEP 4 tomorrow
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    The Christian Single Woman:

    Step 4: Praise

    Why do we always wait until we see the blessing to praise God? If you believe in your heart that God has promised you a husband, then thank Him for the one He is preparing just for you. Praise God in your waiting and thank Him for the lessons He’s teaching you and how He’s maturing you.

    Sometimes it takes being all alone to understand who God is and to develop a relationship with Him so never regret the time spent just getting to know Him.

    Also rejoice with others. I know this can be difficult for a lot of single women, but when God blesses one of your friends with a God-fearing husband, rejoice!

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    Rejoice, your blessing is on the way!

    For one, a Christian marriage is a blessing and we ought to rejoice when we see the blessings of the Lord. Secondly, know that the same God that blesses them, blesses you. Praise God for how He’s growing and maturing you and rejoice when you see God blessing others.


    STEP 5 tomorrow
    AJ

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