View Full Version : I love my wife but I want to cheat with another woman

Pope Bitterz D'Alomo
13th August 2011, 07:40 PM
How many men think about this statement that they love their wives but they still feel the desire to cheat on them?

There are many men that think about cheating and it may not be all the time or it just may be because they are going through a rough patch in the marriage, but in many instances it is more normal than one may think. Men think about sex often and the thought of having sex with another person is part of being human in both men and women. The intense sexual urges that some men feel especially when they may not be sexually intimate with their wives at home can add to their thoughts about cheating even more. Understanding that this is normal is not to say that it is acceptable or a man should act on his feeling, but it is still a fact.

Staying monogamous with one person for life is not a natural human trait. In fact there is nothing natural about it, but as humans we have the ability to make a choice to stay monogamous in our marriage but, it takes work. It is not just given that once a person marries they all of a sudden don't have those natural feeling to mate again.

A man can love his wife and cheat on her it happens more often than not, but when a husband really does loves his wife and has cheated on her the intensity of him getting caught is all that more apparent. The truth is that cheating now adays is quite easy, in fact with the internet, there are plenty of places that men can go to and get information on how to cheat and how to hide it.

Many times women can be in a marriage and because a husband is not asking to be intimate or pressuring her for sexual intimacy this does not mean that he is not thinking about it or wanting it. There are proven statics that men who are not intimate with their wives regularly meaning at least several times a month, are more prone to go out and cheat even though they love their wives. This is not a scare tactic for women in a marriage but more of a wakeup call to say, if your husband and you are not sexually intimate and he is no longer initiating sex with you, he may still be in love with you, but he may also be cheating.


13th August 2011, 10:48 PM
lesson learnt. thanx for the info